normal
Is that a bad word or what most people aspire to be like? Being normal can mean that you fit in, that you're like everyone else in the world. When I was in Kindergarten my dad told me that everyone was unique and that no one was alike. That's what has made me who I am today, not trying to be like anyone else, just being me.
That takes some people years to figure out because they may not have the right mindset or the right attitude. Since I was told to be unique and be myself I never thought of trying to be like anyone else. Part of the reason I was popular in elementary school was because I wasn't trying to be cool I was trying to be me. One of the many reasons I don't attend middle school is because the girls and boys who are not "cool" and "popular" try to be cool and popular and wind up being insecure. So, how do you realize who you are? You can Google it! Or you can figure out why you are so scared of being judged. Is it because you don't have cool clothes, your not the skinniest girl or most masculine guy in the class so that means your fat? If those are just 2 and there are thousands more I could think of. If you have felt that way at school, watching TV, going to the store, wherever you were if you have felt that way, you need to become more confident.
If you can just forget about ever feeling any of those feels of not being good enough in those situations you can start finding out who you truly are and what you like to do. How do you just forget about the haters and all the people who gave you weird looks at school or at work? You're not just going to read this and become perfect, unique and never feel insecure again. I mean if that happened that would be amazing and would be a truly inspiring story. But if that doesn't happen here's what you can do to make it happen! What is your dream morning routine? Think about at least 5 things that you could do in the morning that does not have anything to do with electronics. After you think of 5+ write them down on your phone or on a piece of paper and try to think about where you spend the most time on your phone and computer. I found that I was spending 7 hours and 53 minutes on Youtube a week! So I went in Youtube settings and set a thing to remind that I have been on youtube for 5 minutes and that I should take a break. This has helped drastically and last week the total amount of time I spent on Youtube was 42 minutes! That means I was spending 7 hours and 11 minutes doing something that was enriching my life more than Youtube videos.
That takes some people years to figure out because they may not have the right mindset or the right attitude. Since I was told to be unique and be myself I never thought of trying to be like anyone else. Part of the reason I was popular in elementary school was because I wasn't trying to be cool I was trying to be me. One of the many reasons I don't attend middle school is because the girls and boys who are not "cool" and "popular" try to be cool and popular and wind up being insecure. So, how do you realize who you are? You can Google it! Or you can figure out why you are so scared of being judged. Is it because you don't have cool clothes, your not the skinniest girl or most masculine guy in the class so that means your fat? If those are just 2 and there are thousands more I could think of. If you have felt that way at school, watching TV, going to the store, wherever you were if you have felt that way, you need to become more confident.
If you can just forget about ever feeling any of those feels of not being good enough in those situations you can start finding out who you truly are and what you like to do. How do you just forget about the haters and all the people who gave you weird looks at school or at work? You're not just going to read this and become perfect, unique and never feel insecure again. I mean if that happened that would be amazing and would be a truly inspiring story. But if that doesn't happen here's what you can do to make it happen! What is your dream morning routine? Think about at least 5 things that you could do in the morning that does not have anything to do with electronics. After you think of 5+ write them down on your phone or on a piece of paper and try to think about where you spend the most time on your phone and computer. I found that I was spending 7 hours and 53 minutes on Youtube a week! So I went in Youtube settings and set a thing to remind that I have been on youtube for 5 minutes and that I should take a break. This has helped drastically and last week the total amount of time I spent on Youtube was 42 minutes! That means I was spending 7 hours and 11 minutes doing something that was enriching my life more than Youtube videos.
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